You are used to moving at a hundred miles an hour and chasing adventure wherever it goes, which is one of your best qualities. But at the same time, you never take a second to let yourself rest and breathe in the little moments. So in 2018, you’re going to fall in love when you meet someone who shows you that adventure can be found in everyday life just as much as it can be found via planes and trains and trips across the world.
You’ll fall in love patiently and slowly – with someone you didn’t initially expect to fall for. You will grow close to one another very naturally, and they will love you for your unbelievable warmth while you will love them for how incredibly safe, relaxed, and joyful that they make you feel.
You’re not someone who runs around searching for love – you certainly have an attractive and magnetic personality, but when it comes to actual romantic attention, you tend to keep to yourself. So in 2018, you’ll fall in love with someone who surprises you with their certainty, confidence, and lightness – they’ll make you feel so comfortable and happy that for once, you won’t actually feel insecure and anxious about dating.
In 2018, you’ll fall in love with someone who values home above all else. You are a wonderfully loving person who is so in touch with your own emotions, and you greatly value your time with your family and loved ones. So in the upcoming year, you’re going to fall for someone who values that time with loved ones just as much as you do – and no matter where the two of you are, they will always feel like home.
You are used to being the one who runs the show – you’re incredibly independent, hardworking, and focused on your career. And you’re also used to calling the shots when it comes to your dating life. But in 2018, you’re going to fall for someone who actually challenges you and calls you out when you need to be called out. You’ll act like it annoys you, but in reality it will just make you even more crazy about them.
At long last, 2018 will finally be the year in which you stop getting in your head about every tiny little thing when it comes to dating – because you’ll meet someone who takes so much of the anxiety out of love for you. Rather than worrying about if you’re saying or doing the right thing, this person will make you feel so special and comfortable and silly that you’ll be able to just relax, live in the moment, and let yourself enjoy the experience of falling.
In 2018, you’ll meet someone and boom – you will fall in love very quickly. But staying in love will be a little trickier for you; you’ll be hesitant and a little nervous, because like in the past, you’ll be worried that you’ll have to choose between your significant other and the rest of your social life. But this person will be different: they will be the one who finally helps you not to be afraid of commitment, and who shows you that a relationship never has to been the end of your adventurous lifestyle.
You’ll fall in love in 2018 when you start believing that being successful in your professional life does not mean you need to sacrifice your personal life and your personal happiness. You’re such a powerful and determined force, and that’s one of your best qualities that you should never change. But the way you’ll fall in love in 2018 is by realizing that you can continue working hard towards success and promotions and goal accomplishments and whatever else – without having to sacrifice your chance at happiness or your chance at love. You are allowed to have both success and love, and when you’ve found the right person, it will be the greatest feeling in the world.
After spending your whole life feeling like you always have to be the person who’s happy and “on” and consistently easygoing, 2018 will be the year when you meet someone who makes you feel like you can also be quiet sometimes, and sad sometimes, and down sometimes. And they will love you no matter what – they’ll love your bright spots but they’ll also love you when you’re feeling low. The only bad part about it is that you’ll wish you had found them so much sooner.
The coming year will be the year in which you fall in love the way you always could have but always self-prevented: by opening yourself up, finally deciding not to assume the worst, embracing vulnerability, and allowing yourself to actually fall hard.
Someone is going to come bursting into your life with a warmth and self-assuredness that will simultaneously invigorate and terrify you. They will challenge you to be more open and more in touch with your emotions than you ever have in your life, and rather feeling frustrated and defensive about this like you’ll normally do, you will chase the hell out of this person and this feeling.
You will fall in love in 2018 because you will get fed up with listening to and trying to please everybody else – and instead will decide to finally take the reins of your own life and finally do what you want to do. You’ll be straightforward with your feelings, unapologetic about what you want, and will fall for someone who makes you feel more independent and more yourself than you ever have with anyone else.