In a normal healthy relationship, there will always be fighting, and only through these arguments does a couple understand the differences, the likes and dislikes. What is not normal is when a relationship be it couples or married becomes one sided. One partner has a total control over the other mentally, physically and emotionally.
I once met a guy and he told us his ideal wife is one that doesn’t work, preferably one that stays at home and watch TV all day long. His reason being that a women with no income and no social contacts is easily to control. More often than not it is easier to blame the women for allowing this to happen to her, but like the boiling frog theory, a frog will not realize it is being boiled to death if it is placed in a warm water and gradually heated up.
Can a male partner in an abusive and toxic relationship change for the better? Never! How to fix a toxic relationship? You can’t. Why do people stay in abusive relationships? Hope, they are waiting for a miracle that will never happen. Warning signs of a toxic relationship.
- He doesn’t like you to socialize, be it male or female friends and family members.
- He prefers you not working for no good reasons, or doesn’t encourage you to climb the corporate ladder.
- He loves spanking, chocking or violent intimate moments when making out.
Sometimes we refuse to see how bad something is until it completely destroys us.
Never let someone who contributes so little to a relationship control so much of it.
The scars you can’t see are the hardest to heal.
It’s like one day you flipped a switch and became someone I never knew.
I trusted you but now your words mean nothing to me, because your actions spoke the truth.
A healthy relationship doesn’t drag you down. It inspires you to be better.
The moment that you start to wonder if you deserve better, you do.
Mental abuse is much more painful than physical abuse because you are consumed by your own thoughts.
A healthy relationship will never require you to sacrifice your friends, your dream, or your dignity.
Never make yourself feel like nothing to make someone else feel like everything.
There is no safe way to remain in a relationship with a person who has no conscience. The only solution is to escape.
You’re in a relationship to be happy, to smile, to laugh, and to make good memories. Not to be constantly upset, to feel hurt, and to cry.
There’s nothing worse than being used, except for denying it and allowing it to continue.
Just because someone desire you, does not mean that they value you.
You can’t change someone who doesn’t see an issue in their actions.
Don’t let your loyalty become slavery. If they don’t appreciate what you bring to the table, then let them eat alone.
Stop telling yourself you can fix him. He’s been this way for a long, long time and he doesn’t intend to change. Save yourself instead, get out while there’s still time.
Stay away from people who can’t take responsibility for their actions and who make you feel bad for being angry at them when they do you wrong.
A women should never invest in a relationship she wouldn’t want for her daughter.
Being single and happy is better than being sad and afraid in an abuse relationship.
There is no safe way to remain in an abuse relationship with a person who has no conscience. The only solution is to escape.
The problem is women think he will change, he won’t. And men make the mistake of thinking she will never leave, she will.
At any given moment you have the power to say, “This is not how the story is going to end.”
You’re not broken. Someone who didn’t love you convinced you that you are.
Do you feel alone in your relationship? Abusers isolate their partner from friends and family, and make them dependent financially, socially, and physically.
If you’re brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello.
Poisonous relationship can alter our perception. You can spend many years thinking you’re worthless, you’re unappreciated.
It is better to break your own heart by leaving an abusive relationship, rather than having that person breaking your heart every day.
Don’t allow someone to mentally abuse you just because you love them.
If he makes you lose your family, lose your friends, lose your confidence, lose your self-esteem, or lose your happiness, then you need to lose him.
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