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Forget penis size – this is what women REALLY want in bed

BE CONFIDENT: Women aren’t thinking about the size of your penis Penis size has long been an insecurity for many men.A report by Professor Kevan Wylie, a consultant in sexual medicine at the University of Sheffield, surveyed 50,000 men and women revealed concerns about penis size were higher among men with average-sized penises rather than men with smaller ones.The study ... Read More

BE CONFIDENT: Women aren’t thinking about the size of your penis

Penis size has long been an insecurity for many men.A report by Professor Kevan Wylie, a consultant in sexual medicine at the University of Sheffield, surveyed 50,000 men and women revealed concerns about penis size were higher among men with average-sized penises rather than men with smaller ones.The study also revealed that only 55% of men were satisfied with their penis while a much higher 85% of women were satisfied with their partner’s penis.

Fellas, this is proof women aren’t as concerned about penis size as you may think.

Another study commission but sex toy company Pure Romance asked 1,000 married men and women the sexual acts that would improve their marriage.

The results revealed the four things women care more about than penis size. This is what women really want:

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1. CommunicationIf you look at any healthy relationship you know that communication is the cornerstone for what makes them happy.It is the foundation for everything, especially when it comes to sex. By communicating better you can divulge what it is you really want in bed and feel comfortable trying new things with your partner.

The survey reported 62% of women said good communication would make their marriages better, half of men also agreed.

The best way to get the sex conversation going is to bring up your own desires and see how she reciprocates. More often that not this will open up a communication stream and allow you to discuss sex more freely, leading to better communication in other areas of your life too.

2. Fantasies and role playA bonus to better communication is discovering each other’s fantasies and fetishes.Of the women surveyed, 40% of them said acting our these fantasies would make their marriage better.

And fantasies don’t always have to include bondage and whips, sometimes it’s just trying something new like having sex in a different room of the house, trying role play, dirty talk or a new position.

3. Longer foreplayOver half of the women surveyed (58%) would really, really like you to spend a little bit longer on foreplay.Think of it like act one, you can’t exactly have an act two without an act one so it’s always a great idea to make a good go of it. We know you just want to get to the climax, for lack of a better word, but the slow build up will make it all the better.

It doesn’t even have to be what you do in bed, it can be what you text her during the day or a foot massage you give her while watching your favourite Netflix show. Anything to build up her arousal.

4. Sex toysSex toys can increase both of your experiences in the bedroom and 40% of the women surveyed agreed.Not only can sex toys enhance the pleasure for both of you, cock rings can also help you last longer and help if you suffer from erectile dysfunction. Win-win we think.

Source:dailystar.co.uk